The passing of veteran Bollywood icon Dharmendra at 89 has left a profound void in the Indian film industry. As tributes pour in, heartwarming anecdotes from his colleagues paint a picture of a legend defined not just by his stardom but by his exceptional character. Suhasini Mulay, his co-star in what is now his final film 'Ikkis', has shared touching memories that reveal the man behind the superstar.
A Gentleman Until the End
Reflecting on their time on set, Suhasini highlighted Dharmendra's unwavering chivalry and dedication. She recalled a specific moment during their first meeting that left a lasting impression. Despite his age and physical difficulties, the veteran actor insisted on standing up to offer her his chair. "He told me, 'Aap baithengi, tabhi main baithunga, nahi toh main kaise baith sakta hoon?' (You sit first, only then will I sit. How can I sit otherwise?)," she shared, illustrating his deep-rooted respect for others.
Even while grappling with health issues, his professional spirit remained undimmed. Suhasini marveled at his impeccable craft, noting, "Even though he was old and ailing, he hadn't lost his sense of timing at all." This dedication to his art, right until his final performance, showcases the professionalism that defined his six-decade-long career.
Lighter Moments and Forbidden Paranthas
Beyond the serious actor was a man with a playful spirit. Suhasini revealed a delightful anecdote from their stay at a five-star hotel, where Dharmendra's dietary restrictions became a source of camaraderie. Craving a simple parantha, which he wasn't allowed to eat, he jokingly conspired with her. "He told me, 'Arrey, bol na tha. Mere liye aap smuggle kar leti ek do. Paranthe khaane chahiye – ghee daalke dahi ke saath khaane chahiye' (You should have told me. You could have smuggled one or two for me. One must eat paranthas – with ghee and curd)," she recounted with a laugh.
A Star Who Never Acted Like One
Perhaps the most telling aspect of Dharmendra's personality was his complete lack of ego. Despite being one of the biggest stars Indian cinema has ever produced, he never let his status create distance. "He was such a huge star but he didn't let anybody feel it at all," Suhasini affirmed. He was exceptionally patient with his fans, who would frequently approach for photographs. Unable to stand, he would warmly invite them to sit beside him for a picture, never turning anyone away.
His final film, 'Ikkis', directed by Sriram Raghavan, now stands as a poignant farewell to the beloved 'He-Man' of Bollywood. Through these personal stories, Dharmendra is remembered not only for his iconic roles and charismatic screen presence but as a truly humble and warm-hearted human being whose legacy will inspire generations to come.
