Bollywood actors Parmeet Sethi and Archana Puran Singh have shared a remarkable journey spanning nearly four decades, overcoming significant personal and professional hurdles. In a deeply personal revelation on Archana's YouTube channel, the couple has opened up about the turbulent early years of their relationship, marked by financial instability, career uncertainties, and societal pressures.
A Marriage Against All Odds
Archana Puran Singh recently described her husband Parmeet Sethi as a "red flag" in contemporary Gen Z terminology when they decided to marry. At that time, Parmeet was grappling with the catastrophic collapse of his export garment business, battling severe depression, and had no steady income. Compounding their challenges was the seven-year age gap, with Archana being older, which added another layer of complexity to their relationship according to societal norms.
Financial Turmoil and Emotional Struggles
During the second episode of Archana's YouTube series 'Pyaar Dosti Hai', the couple delved into how financial difficulties shaped their bond. Parmeet recalled the devastating moment when his business in Bangalore crumbled after European orders were abruptly cancelled. "I remember calling you from an STD booth, and I was crying. My entire business was finished," he shared with Archana, who responded with unwavering support by simply saying, "Come back."
Archana admitted that even their priest had advised against the marriage after examining their birth charts, predicting significant struggles in the initial years. Despite this ominous warning, the couple chose to proceed, facing what Archana describes as the "mountain of challenges" that tested their commitment.
Career Transition and Reluctant Acceptance
Parmeet's journey into acting emerged from his business failure. Observing Archana's television work where payments were more immediate compared to his delayed business revenues, he realized acting could be a viable path. "I realized that this is a business where you have to sell yourself, and that I knew how to do," Parmeet explained.
However, Archana was initially resistant to this career shift. "I didn't want a struggling boyfriend," she confessed, concerned about Parmeet's introverted nature and doubting his potential in the entertainment industry. She acknowledged her "limited thinking" at the time, expressing gratitude that Parmeet pursued acting despite her reservations.
Philosophy on Problems and Partnership
Archana revealed her unique perspective on life's challenges, stating she always prayed for financial problems over other types of crises. "I always asked God that may all my problems be financial. Because you can deal with those problems," she explained. This philosophy was tested recently when the couple faced another significant financial loss, with Parmeet reminding her, "You asked for this."
The actress emphasized that earning disparities never concerned her in their relationship. "I never really thought about you not earning, because I thought, 'I am earning, so what's the problem?' That was the thinking – that it didn't matter whether the guy or girl was earning," she stated, highlighting their progressive approach to partnership.
Enduring Support and Modern Revelations
Through their candid YouTube conversations, Parmeet and Archana have offered a rare glimpse into the realities of long-term relationships in the public eye. Their story underscores themes of resilience, unconventional choices, and the power of mutual support during life's lowest moments. The couple's willingness to share these vulnerable chapters demonstrates how they transformed potential "red flags" into the foundation of a lasting marriage that has endured for decades.
