The United States, often described as the world's largest economy and a leading democracy, faces significant challenges including violence, policy instability, and issues like racism and discrimination. According to the Global Peace Index, America ranks 128th out of 163 countries in societal safety, domestic/international conflicts, and militarisation. This has led many citizens to consider relocating.
A Family's Decision to Move
One couple who finally acted on their long-held plans is Clea Barry, a 44-year-old interior designer, and her teacher husband. In 2022, they moved from Kansas City to Chiang Mai, Thailand, with their three children. The family had previously lived in several US cities, including San Diego and Denver. Barry traveled frequently for work, and after the pandemic and a year and a half of online schooling, the family felt ready for a change.
They had considered teaching abroad for years, even receiving offers, but a teaching opportunity in Chiang Mai in 2022 prompted them to say yes. Having visited the city during their honeymoon in 2009, they already loved Thai culture, food, and lifestyle, making the move easier.
Framing the Move as an Adventure
Barry explained to Business Insider that they presented the move to their children—then aged 9, 7, and 2—as a family adventure. They showed the kids YouTube videos and highlighted fun prospects in Thailand, sparking their interest.
Life in Chiang Mai
Originally planning to stay for two years, the family has now lived in Thailand for four years. They reside in a three-bedroom home in Hang Dong, about 15 minutes from the city center. The house includes a pool, a garden, and is located eight minutes from their children's school. A coffee shop sits across the street, and walking trails surround the area.
Their monthly rent is 32,000 Thai baht (approximately $975). Barry's children adjusted well to their new life, and she began volunteering at their school. The school offers club activities like swimming and soccer, reducing the need for parents to shuttle children between activities.
A Slower Pace of Life
Barry noted that the slower pace of life has benefited their family. On weekends, they enjoy hiking and dining out. She particularly appreciates Chiang Mai's play cafés—restaurants with built-in play areas for children.
Safety is another significant difference. Barry stated, 'It feels safe here, and we feel comfortable letting the kids have a bit more independence.' Her daughter, a tween, enjoys going to the mall to meet friends.
Building Community and Travel
The family has found friends through community events, school activities, and social media groups. Barry reflected on her previous life in the US: 'I only had a few weeks of vacation each year and didn't have summers off, which made family travel much harder. Since moving to Chiang Mai, we've been able to travel to 10 different countries together, including Laos and Vietnam.'
Above all, Barry cherishes the time she now spends with her children, sharing in their childhood experiences.
