Global superstar Jennifer Lopez has publicly outlined what she is looking for in a future romantic partner, following her divorce from actor and filmmaker Ben Affleck. The revelation came during an emotional performance at her 'Up All Night' concert residency in Las Vegas.
JLo's Powerful Declaration on Stage
While performing her classic 1999 hit 'If You Had My Love' at The Colosseum at Caesars Palace, Lopez reflected on her journey through love and heartbreak. She shared a poignant message with the audience about the evolution of her perspective. The singer explained that she first sang the song with youthful hope, but has since performed it through various emotional chapters—times of sadness and happiness.
"But now, today, you know how I sing it? I sing it in power," Lopez declared. She laid down clear conditions for anyone hoping to win her love, stating they must earn it. Her non-negotiable demands include being treated right, receiving respect, and being accepted for all that she is. "You'd have to love me if you wanted my love," she asserted, framing her current approach as one of strength and self-assurance.
Embracing Heartbreak as Part of the Journey
In a candid moment, the 'On The Floor' hitmaker acknowledged that heartbreak is an inevitable part of seeking love. "You can't have love without heartbreak. You can't. That's what you sign up for," she told the crowd, suggesting a mature acceptance of life's romantic complexities.
Despite this open discussion about her ideal partner, reports indicate that Lopez is not actively looking to date immediately. A source close to the singer revealed to People.com in December that her primary focus remains on her career and her children. "It's all about work and the kids for her. She seems happy and content," the source shared.
A Look Back at Lopez's Relationship Timeline
Jennifer Lopez shares 17-year-old twins, Max and Emme, with her third husband, singer Marc Anthony. Her relationship with Ben Affleck has been a long-standing public narrative. The couple first got engaged in the early 2000s but called it off in 2004. They famously rekindled their romance in 2021, leading to a wedding in July 2022.
The marriage ended two years later, with Lopez filing for divorce. The legal documents listed April 26, 2024, as the official date of separation. Prior to Affleck, Lopez was married to Ojani Noa (1997-1998), Cris Judd (2001-2003), and Marc Anthony (2004-2014). She was also engaged to former baseball star Alex Rodriguez from 2019 until their split in 2021.
Through her powerful stage performance, Jennifer Lopez has sent a clear message about her self-worth and standards for any future relationship, marking a new chapter of empowerment following her high-profile divorce.
