In a heartwarming family conversation, veteran actress Sharmila Tagore has publicly applauded the parenting skills of her son, actor Saif Ali Khan. The revelations came during a candid discussion on the latest episode of the podcast 'All About Her,' hosted by her daughter, Soha Ali Khan.
A Mother's Praise for Modern Parenting
Reflecting on the evolution of parenting styles across generations, Sharmila Tagore noted a significant shift. She mentioned that while she relied on guidance from elders when raising Saif and Soha, today's parents, like her son, often turn to books and friends for advice. This modern approach, she observed, has worked wonderfully for Saif.
Sharmila specifically highlighted Saif's dedication as a father to his eldest daughter, Sara Ali Khan. She recalled how Saif seamlessly balanced his professional commitments with fatherly duties when Sara was young. "Saif has been an excellent parent," Sharmila stated. She gave an example of Sara accompanying her parents to late-night film premieres, yet returning home to complete her homework, showing that his inclusive approach did not hinder her responsibilities.
Lessons in Participation and Patience
The podcast episode was rich with personal anecdotes that showcased Saif's parenting philosophy. Sharmila shared a memorable incident involving her grandson, Ibrahim Ali Khan. During a Christmas tree decoration session in Pataudi, Sharmila was focused on achieving perfection. However, Ibrahim was happily placing decorations "all over the place."
It was then that Saif intervened, teaching his mother a valuable lesson. "Saif said, 'Do you mind? It has to be participative'," Sharmila recalled. This moment, she explained, taught her that parenting isn't about perfection but about allowing children the space to learn and grow at their own pace. She credited Saif for this insightful perspective.
Fun and Honesty with the Younger Kids
Sharmila Tagore also spoke fondly of Saif's relationship with his younger sons, Taimur and Jeh, whom he shares with his second wife, actress Kareena Kapoor Khan. She described him as being "a lot of fun" with the boys. Furthermore, she appreciated his authenticity, noting that even during a personal accident, Saif remained "very real" with his children, not shielding them from reality but handling the situation with honesty.
The family-centric podcast also featured Saif's daughter from his first marriage to Amrita Singh, actress Sara Ali Khan. Sara expressed gratitude for her upbringing, describing her father's influence on her choices as "eclectic." She also credited her mother, Amrita Singh, for instilling the value of authenticity. "Staying real in a world where it’s difficult to be that way… I think that’s because of mom," Sara said, highlighting the blended yet supportive family environment that shaped her.
This intimate podcast episode peeled back the curtain on the Khan-Pataudi family, revealing a modern, participative, and emotionally honest approach to parenting championed by Saif Ali Khan, much to the admiration of his mother.
