Girija Oak on 'National Crush' Tag: Unwanted Texts, No Work Offers
Girija Oak: 'National Crush' tag brings texts, not work

Actress Girija Oak, a respected name in Indian theatre and cinema, has recently experienced the double-edged sword of viral fame. After an interview propelled her to the status of 'national crush', the Jawan actress finds herself navigating a strange new reality filled with unwanted attention but no significant change in her professional prospects.

The Bittersweet Reality of Viral Fame

In a candid conversation with Lallantop on November 26, 2025, Oak reflected on the unexpected turn her life took. The phenomenon began when she was identified as the 'blue saree girl' from her film, leading to her images being widely shared and even compared to international celebrities across social media platforms.

While acknowledging she is enjoying the positive attention, Oak revealed the unsettling side of this newfound fame. She shared an example of the distasteful direct messages she now receives, such as one that read, 'Will you be my babes?' She pointed out the stark contrast in how people perceive her, noting that her Instagram profile clearly shows she is a married woman with a son and has a long-standing career in theatre that commands respect.

'There is an interesting divide in the audience,' Oak observed, 'to either respect me or sexualize me.'

Family Reactions and Grounded Perspective

Despite the online chaos, Girija Oak's family has maintained a balanced perspective. She explained that since her entire family is connected to the entertainment field, they view the situation with amusement. Her young son, however, was initially confused by the sudden attention during his school trip.

Oak recounted a heartwarming exchange where her son asked if she would change because of all the attention. She first joked about her 'Girija 2.0' version, but then assured him that her core self would remain unchanged.

When asked if her life has transformed after becoming the 'national crush', Oak responded with a dose of reality. 'I laugh and say nothing has changed,' she stated. 'Rickshaw mujhe abhi nahi mil rahi hai (I still struggle to find an auto-rickshaw). I am not getting extra work offers.'

The Darker Side of Going Viral

The actress did not shy away from discussing the more disturbing aspects of her viral fame. She recalled receiving a particularly offensive message asking, 'What would be the price to spend one hour with you?' Oak sharply criticized this behavior, noting that the same people who send such messages would likely not even look up at her in real life.

'Behind a veil, people say anything,' she pointed out. 'In front of you, they speak with love and respect.' This is not the first time Oak has addressed the negative consequences of her online popularity. She had previously expressed deep concern over AI-morphed vulgar photos of her circulating online, worrying about the impact on her 12-year-old son who might see them.

With a career spanning over two decades in both Marathi and Hindi cinema, Girija Oak has been part of notable projects like Qala, The Vaccine War, Jawan, and Shor In The City. Her recent experience highlights the complex nature of internet fame, where public adoration often comes with a cost that remains invisible to the audience.