In a candid reflection on her journey, actor Shiwani Chakraborty, widely recognized for her role as Meeta in the popular television show Anupamaa, has emphasized that failure is a crucial element in shaping one's career and personal growth. She believes that without experiencing setbacks, individuals cannot fully appreciate or understand the path to success.
The Essential Role of Failure in Life
Shiwani articulated her thoughts on failure, stating, "Failure is a very important part of your life. Because if you don't fail, you will not get the idea of what to do next." She elaborated that some people achieve success early and easily, which can leave them unprepared for challenges. "Later, if they face any disturbance or problem, they get disturbed about it; then again, they head toward that same depression and loneliness," she added, highlighting the pitfalls of an untested journey.
She further explained, "I think for a good journey, failure is a very important part of your life. Because if you don't fail, you won't even know what it means to pass. When you are sometimes unsuccessful, you realize how important success is. Likewise, you will have to endure negative things to know what is positive." This perspective underscores the value of adversity in building resilience and clarity.
Patience and Positivity: Keys to Overcoming Early Struggles
When asked about the habits or mindsets that helped her during her early struggles, Shiwani pointed to two fundamental qualities: patience and positivity. "I always say one thing: only patience and positivity. Since childhood, I have learned from my father and mother that you have to be very patient. You cannot expect everything to happen today, or for your work to be done in a split second," she shared.
She acknowledged that while luck or flukes can sometimes bring quick results, it's essential to be prepared for the natural pace of life. "Sometimes it does happen, but you should be prepared that everything takes its own time; everything has its own time," she advised, reinforcing the importance of a steady, long-term approach.
Winning Half the Battle with a Positive Mindset
Shiwani believes that understanding the power of patience and positivity can help individuals win half the battle in life. "Have patience and a positive approach. Because until you bring positivity into your mind, you will be surrounded by negative thoughts, because people are there to pull your legs any day, whether you are doing right or wrong," she said.
She also stressed the significance of happiness, noting, "Be positive and be happy. Being happy is also very important in life because without inner happiness, you will feel very lonely and helpless. I think this is the mindset I have kept since childhood, which allows me to pull through even during my bad days." This holistic view connects emotional well-being with overall success.
Mental Health: A Cornerstone for Survival and Success
Shiwani agrees that mental health plays a vital role in navigating life's challenges. She shared insights on maintaining good mental health, especially in today's sensitive and fragile times. "People today are very sensitive and a bit fragile, and they feel that if they cannot endure a certain situation, then life is over. But I think it is an individual mindset; it is about how you personally handle a situation," she explained.
She emphasized the need for mental strength from the outset. "If your mindset is strong from the beginning, then you will handle everything very lightly and easily. But if you are not mentally strong, then you can take things; otherwise, it will be very difficult, not just in life or your career, but everywhere."
Illustrating this point, Shiwani added, "If you are at your in-laws' house, you cannot survive if your mental status is not strong. If you are at work where so many colleagues are with you, if your mindset is not strong, you will break very quickly. You have to be very strong in your mind. I believe your mental health must be very strong along with your physical health." This analogy highlights the universal applicability of mental resilience in various aspects of life.
In related news, the show Anupamaa continues to captivate audiences with emotional storylines, such as recent scenes where Anupamaa and Anuj break down emotionally as they miss Aadhya, adding depth to the narrative and resonating with viewers.
