Taapsee Pannu Reveals Intimate Details About Her Marriage to Mathias Boe
In a refreshingly honest new interview, Bollywood star Taapsee Pannu has opened up about her marriage to former badminton player Mathias Boe, offering candid insights into possessiveness, cultural differences, and their unusually long engagement period. The actress, known for her bold roles and outspoken nature, reflected on past relationships, her expectations from a partner, and why the couple finally decided to tie the knot after nine years of being engaged.
Addressing Possessiveness and Cultural Perceptions
When asked whether a husband from abroad could also be possessive, Taapsee laughed and responded, "Now you've thrown me into this controversy." She clarified that she does not compare "desi" and "foreign" men in that manner, emphasizing that possessiveness is not tied to nationality but to individual personality traits.
Reflecting on her past relationships, Taapsee admitted, "I didn't think I could take a single step in my life without asking, because it wasn't acceptable that a girl could be more successful than a boy." She contrasted this with her current relationship, noting that she has been with Mathias for 13 years now and does not experience such insecurity. "He never let me feel the burden of a relationship. I almost forget that I am someone who is married," she revealed during her conversation with Shubhankar Mishra.
Equality in Marriage and Practical Expectations
Speaking about equality in marriage, Taapsee said, "If I say day is day, and night is night, and they just agree—no, I don't want that either." She explained that she does not desire a partner who blindly agrees with everything she says, valuing mutual respect and independent thinking instead.
Calling herself "old school," Taapsee revealed that she had clarity early in their relationship: "After the first few dates, there was big clarity that we would move forward only if it felt like it could reach marriage, otherwise why make the effort?" Her condition before marriage was simple: "Only if everything can remain the same, then we get married."
Navigating International Living Arrangements
When asked about shifting countries after marriage, Taapsee explained, "We both logically discussed what would work long-term. His life has always involved traveling because of tournaments, so moving around wasn't new for him. I also tried staying abroad, but I knew I couldn't live there permanently. We figured out what works best for both of us." This practical approach has helped them maintain balance despite their international backgrounds.
Cultural Shocks During Wedding Celebrations
Taapsee shared that she could have monetized her wedding significantly. "A lot of money could have been made... I could have sent my wedding to international Netflix," she said, but chose to keep it intimate and rooted in tradition instead.
Recalling cultural differences during the ceremonies, she laughed about reactions to the haldi ritual: "They were so shocked wondering why we were making our faces dirty." She also found humor in how Mathias's side reacted to guests dancing energetically without alcohol. "They were shocked that people were dancing so wildly without alcohol! For us, music starts and we just dance. To this day, they tell me it was a 'once-in-a-lifetime experience.' So I feel whatever money I spent was worth it—at least they'll remember my wedding forever."
Dealing with Online Scrutiny and Privacy
On the topic of handling online scrutiny, Taapsee said, "Neither I nor my husband read comments," adding that they prefer staying happy in their own world rather than engaging with external opinions about their relationship.
The World's Longest Engagement
Opening up about their extended engagement period, Taapsee revealed, "We were engaged for 9 years, because he proposed to me for marriage just one year into our relationship." She joked that they eventually decided to marry because they didn't want it to become "the world's longest engagement." The couple officially tied the knot in 2023 after more than a decade together.
Throughout the interview, Taapsee Pannu's reflections showcase a relationship built on mutual respect, practical considerations, and cultural blending. Her insights offer a rare glimpse into how modern Bollywood celebrities navigate marriage while maintaining their individuality and professional success.
